What do you mean? You never saw the film "Tarzan Goes to Buenos Aires"?
I am sure you must have seen this film. I'll remind you about the plot:
Tarzan and Jane go to Buenos Aires. At first Tarzan goes out on the floor with Jane and leads her, shoving her around the floor. And Jane, being told that she must follow and yield entirely to the lead, is not even thinking about the music. Jane's legs are all tangled, and her steps have nothing to do with the music because she is so delayed trying to figure out what in the hell Tarzan is attempting to lead.
Tarzan, we find as the plot deepens, actually hears the jungle beat of African Canyenge in his blood. But Jane is just following the abbreviated, overly macho teaching method that leaves it all up to the man. It works with most women in Buenos Aires because all the little girls grow up with tango. The Argentinian women are being led by the music in spite of their teachers' misguided instruction.
My favorite part of the movie was severely cut from the original, but a few moments remain in the released version. In this scene, Tarzan makes love to Jane after a frustrating day of classes at a tango dance studio. They experience the simple synchronization of love, harmonizing of souls and the embrace of tenderness. A tango plays on the radio in the background. They realize that the music is leading these most wonderful, tender moments. That night they miraculously dance as well as ever, synchronized by the music's lead. Jane turns to Tarzan, and is the first to utter these often repeated words, "Tarzan, I think tango is a vertical expression of our horizontal desires." Yes, that was Jane -- a little known urban myth that I just started.
After spending time in the Milonga Jungle in Buenos Aires, including being caught in a raging river of bodies swirling on the pista, during which they nearly die, the movie ends with peaceful, tender scene. Jane turns to Tarzan after they dance a wonderful tanda and says, "Tarzan your movement to the music is like deep bass notes vibrating through my soul. I feel as if my soul can harmonize and and I can sing songs with my body which I never knew I had in me."
Tarzan, not really knowing what to say, replies, "Me Tarzan; you Jane."
NOW do you remember the film?